Lam Dien, you can never write too much about yourself :). You seem to be a pretty straight up guy which is a good thing. I was raised by my mom to be generous. I am a pretty low maintenance guy so I don’t need to spend a lot on myself. However I am not afraid to spend money on the top of the line item if I need it. The way I see it is that I would rather get something worth while than spending a little money here and there on stuffs that I end up having to get rid of. Anyway I usually don’t label people for their spending habit as long as they spend their own money.

I am also believe in being nice. Mommy taught me that too. But she is a lot nicer than me. I certainly don’t believe in being nice to the point of being taking advantage of. When hanging out in a big group we usually see one or two people being “free loader”. I don’t mind if it happen a few times but if it become a regular thing I am usually the guy that play the devil advocate and I’ll call them out.

Same thing with taking your shoes off when coming to somebody house. I don’t mind either way really but if I went to somebody else home and they expect me to take my shoes off and they don’t when they come to someone else place then I’ll call them out. Can’t have ‘em double standard ya know :)

Marriage is so good so far. Can’t complaint. When I hear a hot beat, I groove to it. If you call that practice :)

Ok, so Donny I am off to another beautiful wedding gig. This is at Golden City for a young sweet couple. I am looking forward to
giving the guets a great time.
I will miss your singing and dancing.

Tonight I will sing alot of classic Vietnamese oldies such
as “Huong ve Hanoi” , “ngam ngui”
“HoaiCam” and “Huong Xua”.

I cann’t believe it. I got a list of 25 requested songs from the bride’s family. I cann’t wait to sing “Thuong ve mien Trung” I have never dare to sing this song before. BTW, anh Hinh said you are looking really fit when he saw you last Sat Donny. Marriage is a good thing for you. .. plus you seem really smooth with your dance moves compared to before marriage. You must been practicing at home alot huh ..LOL.

Have a great weekend.

Well everyone has their own ways of spending..Some may agree some may not with how others spend. Some people prefer to spend on clothes, cars, investments and getting rich, some spends on leisure activities, electronics, gadgets, sport gears and cds. My sister think i spend too much on cds and going out. And i think she spends too much on clothes..he he… But one thing is that we never really spend too much.. and we make sure it’s something worthwhile to buy.We still have it well under control. And we do contribute to charities, sponsored child, and relatives who are in needs. And we make sure we r not taking advantages of any one else..so basically sensible. I make sure that i don’t end up being a cheap guy. When we split the bill i’m often make sure i’d give at least the right amount. I’d hate to have a tag of cheap behind my back, as often u know people talk behind the back of the cheap ones. And also when i go out with a girl,a relative or someone who is unemployed, or when i feel generous, i don’t mind to pay for the bill. But even then, most of the time people don’t want u to shout them, and at first i didn’t know why they refuse the gesture. But when i put my self in their positions i understand that i wouldn’t want someone to pay my bill for me as well..

I’m not very good at explaining my points of view, and i think ur blog allow me to practice my expression Donny.

Yeah, back to the cheap guy, i had a friend who i gave a lift home once, and a couple of weeks later i gave him another lift, and he asked me if i found a 2 dollars coin he thought he dropped in my car. I said no, and he searched around and below the seat for it..he he

However i have no problems with people who want to split the bill exactly..I think they have the right to pay for what they eat and if that’[s what they want then i’d let them do the calculations. If they want to round off it’s fine too. But i’d hate to owe any one money, i rather be the one who pay out a bit extra.

I think it’s not too bad when we go out one on one, but when it’s a group and there’s a calculating one, it’s often more difficult as everyone else try to keep it simple and keep the mood happy.

In summary, i wrote too much about myself here. I’m the only single guy here.. and i’m not too cheap. So Donny u have to find me a nice girl…he he

i understand though.