On Cheating
Dana and I used to follow Jon & Kate Plus 8. We adored the kids and admired the parents for putting up with all the craziness. I could barely survive with just one. With all the hardship the couple had been through, we thought that nothing could break the two apart. We were wrong. Cheating damn near ruined such a perfect family. I wonder how Jon going to explain to his kids what he did. Well, mommy wasn’t around and daddy had to have his needs.
Cheating is bad, but it’s even worse when you get caught and you will get caught. Even the formal president Bill Clinton and former governor Eliot Spitzer couldn’t get away with cheating. Actually, Spitzer was just paying for some pussy. Again, a man has his needs.
I don’t cheat because I haven’t heard of a successful cheating story. Even if the fish is on the chopping board, I don’t dare to bait it. I have worked too damn hard to earn her trust since the first day we met. Once you lose that trust, the relationship will be cracked forever. Even if she forgives, she never forgets. It will haunt you for the rest of your life. In addition, I can’t betray Duke. I can’t let our problems to affect his life and I don’t have to explain to him later on why I cheated on mommy.
So if you like to cheat, don’t get married. If you want to get married, don’t cheat. It’s not a game.
It’s only cheating…when you get caught =)
True that, true that :)
That’s why we have this thing called “Open Relationshiop” in which one is free to “explore” outside what’s at home LOL I have nothing against it but I myself am a jealous type and won’t be able to put up with it.
Some people are not born to be faithful to just one person and that’s fine as long as they are honest and tell their partners what’s really going on. Actually, I find many of those cheaters are quite interesting people because they long to live many lives and experience many different roles: husband, wife, brother, sister, dad, mom, mailman, milkwoman, etc LOL I do, however, have problems with hypocrites who call single people selfish for not getting married and then they themselves get caught in men’s rooms fishing (not for fish) LOL
“Open Relationshop?” open to shop? :)
Easier said than done. Men are born with primal quest to mate and procreate, to conquer and possess…that’s why the majority of them think with their pen*s instead of brain.
#5.. Not really… that goes for both men and women. Most men however don’t think it is a big deal to cheat. Women cheats too but it’s more emotional needs then physical most of the time.
It ‘s really hard to keep the marriage interesting and alive and so people venture out to find excitements.
Kate’s a bitch, I’m not suprised.
Women are from Venus – Men are from Penis
Thu Hoai – (I have a name, u know…we’re not on the Dating Game here..bachelor #5) :)
but coming from a woman, if that’s true … then it’s fair game :)
Alright Mr. James.. Bond :)
Working woman has more of a challenge
in this arena than stay at home mom.
Sometimes things don’t go great at home
and men at work flirt with you and sweet talk
to you.. more temptations…
Thu Hoai – that’s called sexual harassment :)
No James, its called options. Even if you are married, if you are not treated as you should be by your partner, then there are still options. Divorce first of course. :)