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Suck It Up

When I was residing at the refugee camp in the Philippines, I witnessed the grossest scene ever: a mother sucked the mucus right out of her little daughter’s nose. The girl was around 12-month old and she had a running nose. Why did she do it? Out of love, of course. She even said that even though it was not a pleasant thing to do, she did what she had to do because that’s her child.

I kept saying to myself that I would never do that even when I have a kid. I was so dead wrong. Duke is incredibly sensitive when it comes to touching his nose. He had a running nose the other day and his nostril was all congested. He breathed heavily and we couldn’t get him to stay still to clean his nose. Q-tips, Kleenex, Little Nose, and even the nose suction couldn’t do the job. At that moment, the scene of the woman came to my mind, and out of desperation, I put my mouth to his nose and sucked up the boogers.

Seeing his nose all cleared and hearing he could breath better, it was not all that bad. Big thanks to the woman who gave me the encouragement.

24 Comments

  1. been there, done that. once you got pooped on, anything goes

    Comment by idlehouse — 16 December 2009 @ 1:27 am
  2. makes for a good anecdote later on when sharing ‘most courageous/grossest kid stories’ with other parents

    Comment by Joseph — 16 December 2009 @ 3:47 am
  3. Aaahhh…that is so sweet…the things we do for love, huh? And you know…as a writer, I just stole it for a future story. :)

    Comment by Kristin Bair O'Keeffe — 16 December 2009 @ 4:22 am
  4. idlehouse, you’re the supermom!

    Joseph, true that true that

    Hi Kristin, glad you like the story!

    Comment by donny — 16 December 2009 @ 10:34 am
  5. Just want to share this heartbreaking story
    http://www.vnexpress.net/GL/Xa-hoi/2009/12/3BA16AD9/

    Comment by Nguyen — 16 December 2009 @ 10:56 am
  6. I have to admit that I haven’t done that before..my husband would probably do it though..but so far we only use the syringe bulb we got from the hospital to remove mucus.

    Comment by Tran — 16 December 2009 @ 3:23 pm
  7. These two items are must have if you have kids:
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    Sucking the mucus is just gross dude :).

    Comment by TTBlue — 16 December 2009 @ 5:41 pm
  8. Didn’t work, dude. We have both!

    Comment by donny — 16 December 2009 @ 5:44 pm
  9. The smaller Syringe actually don’t work all that well. This one is a bigger and work well. The one that supplied by the hospital just totally blows.

    Comment by TTBlue — 16 December 2009 @ 6:04 pm
  10. How you know all this shit and you ain’t got no kids?

    Comment by donny — 16 December 2009 @ 6:35 pm
  11. LOL! Well, when I have more nieces and nephews than I can remember… I ought to know something about kids. And that’s not counting friends’ kids and whatnot.

    Comment by TTBlue — 16 December 2009 @ 7:48 pm
  12. And by the way, how’d you know I don’t have kids? I probably have “con ro+i” somewhere that I don’t know about. :)

    Comment by TTBlue — 16 December 2009 @ 7:51 pm
  13. How do I know you don’t have kids? Dude, you’re still a virgin :)

    Comment by donny — 16 December 2009 @ 8:41 pm
  14. talking about boogers, for those that don’t want to admit it they taste kinda salty. i can’t speak for anyone else though. who knows? they maybe a ‘secret ingredient’ for one of those special gourmet dishes.

    btw. i’m glad to report that i’ve kicked the habit for many many (one more ‘many’ for good measure) years now and simply dispose of them in tissue, TP, or whatever is available.

    Comment by Joseph — 17 December 2009 @ 3:15 am
  15. Donny,

    I agree with TTBlue, the one I have is from the hospital and it works very well.

    Comment by Tran — 17 December 2009 @ 10:18 am
  16. Tran ddang contradict TTBlue ma` no’i agree gi`, ha ha

    Comment by idlehouse — 17 December 2009 @ 1:07 pm
  17. Thay roi ma khong dam noi do chu :)

    Comment by donny — 17 December 2009 @ 1:13 pm
  18. If Tran’s contradicting me, she’s not doing very good job of it :).

    Comment by TTBlue — 17 December 2009 @ 1:27 pm
  19. I’m contradicting TBLue? I have the big one from the hospital unless he meant the small one is from the hospital.

    Comment by Tran — 17 December 2009 @ 1:59 pm
  20. My dear Tran :). TTBlue means sucks when he said “blows.” Unless he means totally blowing out the mucus (no slang intended).

    Comment by donny — 17 December 2009 @ 2:17 pm
  21. Gosh.. I am a nurse and my stomach is turning.. I ‘ve lost my touch.

    Comment by Thu Hoai — 18 December 2009 @ 7:15 pm
  22. Parents are willing to do anything for their kids. I saw my dad did the same thing for my baby sister when she was sick.

    Comment by Thuy — 20 December 2009 @ 1:38 am
  23. Wow I am impressed …I used a hospital instrument to do it.
    I did my share of gosh stuffs though.

    Comment by Thu Hoai — 20 December 2009 @ 11:30 pm
  24. My partner would have no hesitation in sucking the mucus out.

    Me? I would happily stick my finger up my child’s butt to pull the hard poop out… or fish a floating poop out of the bath tub… than do mucus !

    Comment by Ngoc — 18 January 2010 @ 8:27 pm